if you had a really terrible phase where you were an offensive little asshole but you know better now i wanna let you know that i’m proud you were able to pull yourself out of that because some people just don’t know when to grow the fuck up but you did
As a lesbian, I do not care at all about bisexual girls feeling left out or judged in the LGBTQ community. I know that's horrible, especially since my girlfriend is bi, but I find it very revolting when I think about making love with someone that loves taking dick. I fell for my girlfriend without knowing she likes guys and girls. I don't purposefully date bisexual girls and I don't think it's wrong to say that.
I really hope your girlfriend realizes she’s dating a pathetic waste of a human being and finds someone infinitely better.
A lot of lesbians are turned off by the idea of their gf having sex with men. Why is that such a bad thing? Why is it so wrong to only like women who like other women? I think the anon who asked this should be honest with her gf and break up with her though if it’s that much of a turn off.
At first I wasn’t going to reply to comments like these but now that I’ve had a couple of beers the idea of repeatedly hitting my head against a brick wall seems more enjoyable so here we go.
I have a problem with lesbians who claim that they have a “preference” towards dating other lesbians over bisexuals. I understand having a preference, I personally have a preference for girls who are my height or taller than me. However, does this preference make me view my own voice, safety, and representation in my community as superior and of more importance than those I do not have a preference for? Nope. That’s why this anon (and unfortunately other like minded individuals) don’t have a “preference” they are biphobic and overall prejudicial assholes.
If you’re not comfortable dating bisexual people because you feel they will ultimately leave you for the opposite sex or (insert other stereotypical view of bisexuals) you don’t have a preference, you are biphobic, and have some huge insecurities that you should probably deal with before you enter a relationship.
If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks because you find it “icky” or “gross”, it must blow your mind when you find out your partner likes watermelon and you don’t. How do you even move forward from there? Is the relationship just doomed? And yes it is the same thing. Those individuals are judging someone based on something they cannot control.
Prejudice and phobia inside the queer community is something I will never understand and is absolutely infuriating.
Thank you. As a bisexual woman who was shamed by their lesbian girlfriend for liking both sexes- I can assure anyone who is insecure enough to make fun of or shame their bisexual lovers that they are not mature enough to handle any sort of intimate relationship.
I was 16 years old when my ex told me to ‘jump the fence’ and that ‘my sexuality didn’t exist’ and because of that I changed my identity for several years to please her. When we broke up I had to find myself all over again and now I stumble to try and speak to men, express myself around them and escape the stigma put on me due to the fact that I was abused enough to identify as something I’m not.
Your lover can love you and still love dick. Your lover can love you and still love pussy.
That’s why they’re YOUR lover because they’re loving YOU.
You don’t have to fucking worry about someone else’s genitals around them because if you trust them, they’re YOURS.
"I DON’T LIKE GIRLS WHO HAVE TAKEN DICK!"
How sad for you then, considering that any girl who likes you is actually liking a huge dick already.
(PS- "Loves taking dick?" Number one that’s cissexist and number two are you from a terrible porno? "Taking dick"? Jesus you sound like 14 year old boy trying to talk about sex. Yuck.)
"He loved her, of course, but better than that, he chose her, day after day. Choice: that was the thing."
Sherman Alexie, The Toughest Indian In The World